Re:  Wonder Woman


A culture that does not even have a coherent answer to what a woman is is not fit to give anyone a feminine icon.  

Me:  “What is a woman?”

America:  “A strong, independent human.”

Me:  “So can he be a woman?  Steve over there?”

America:  “If that’s what he identifies as.”

Me:  “So what is a man, then?”

America:  “Look, Wade, these are really just arbitrary social categories, anyway.”

Me:  “If they’re arbitrary, then why are you trying to give me a ‘feminine‘ icon?”

America:  “Umm…”

Me:  “Can that guy over there bear children?”

America:  “Umm…”

Me:  “You can get back to me.”

Our culture no longer accepts that God created men and women, at least not in its most prevalent institutions and platforms.  Instead, down deep in its bloodstream, is the belief that no one created us.  And from that flow at least a couple of assumptions.  (1) We don’t owe anyone anything for our existence, or owe anyone anything as created moral beings with moral obligations, and (2) There’s no objective standard of definitions that are just true, not conjecture.  

Now on that (2), abortion rests.  We get to define what a human is, each of us individually, because there isn’t any true answer to the question.   But also on that one rests this dangerous, human-assaulting and humanity-assaulting thing that I’ll call “gender confusion.”  There isn’t anyone to tell us what a man is and there isn’t anyone to tell us what a man should do, our culture says.  There isn’t anyone to tell us what a woman is or what a woman should do.  

“But,” our culture says, “we’ll darn sure tell you what a woman is not.  And no one can tell us what a woman should be.”

Our culture has convictions, but it can’t give a coherent, thorough-to-the-bottom defense of them.  And it can’t tell us why its convictions are right.  It says it knows that women are not designed, when married, to submit to their husbands.  But it won’t, and can’t, coherently say what they are designed for in marriage.  Or in society.  Or as mothers.  Or as daughters.  

This came up when a movement started to swell to allow women into combat situations in the US Armed Forces, and then when two Republican candidates for the presidency in 2016 said they favored women having to register for the draft.  Our culture has produced an ethos where no one could have the down-to-the-ground logical reasoning to say why that was utter nonsense. 

And then it also comes up with this Wonder Woman schtick.  

Here is a fundamental question:  Are women supposed to rush into conflict to save men?  Is that a good thing to be normative?  

Let me ask the question from my vantage point, standing over here on a solid, level ground called “God made the World through Jesus and He gets to say what’s good:”  Are women designed and called by God to rush into battle and save men?

The answer is no.  No, they are not.  No, it is not good for that to be normative.  It would not be healthy and fitting with human flourishing for a society to bless or be proud of its women rushing to the front of conflicts to protect its men.  

No, a society that blessed that should be ashamed.  

We can rail against this all we want, we can be uncomfortable with it until we’ve bitten our nails clean away, but God made men with the design of physically and spiritually protecting their wives, daughters, and the women they are bound to, as well as, in many cases, women and all those who are weaker than them generally.  

Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. 

1 Peter 3:7

Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’  Now out of the ground the Lord God had formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the man to see what he would call them.  And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name.  The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field.  But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him.  So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh.  And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man.  Then the man said, ‘This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.’  Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.  And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed. 

Genesis 2:18-25

I desire then that in every place the men should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarreling; likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works.  Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness.  I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet.  For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor.  Yet she will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith and love and holiness, with self-control. 

1 Timothy 2:8-15

God did not design grown women to lead, protect, and save grown men.  Men should want to take the first bullet, to sacrificially lead the way, and to spend themselves to protect women.  While that may not be what happens in each and every circumstance (a woman may save a physically disabled man, for instance), it is the design.  It is what is normative and praiseworthy.  

Our culture seems to want to say, “What’s a woman, you ask?  A woman is a strong and resilient human being.  What’s a man?  Well, a man is something else, we’ll get back to you on that.  But both are the same.  I mean, they can’t be the same, I guess, because we’re telling you what each is, and because we also are telling some men they can be women and some women they can be men.  But men and women are not different.  Get it?  They’re the same and can do all the same things and are totally identical, but some of the one are really the other.  But don’t don’t you dare tell me what the one or the other is.  Or should do.  Nobody really made us or gets to tell us what we should be or should do.”

It’s incoherent.  Our culture has no robust definition of woman or womanhood.  All it can offer is stories and images of women doing those noble and good things that God calls men to do.  But at the same time it supports some men wanting to pretend to be women (the very thing it says are just like men) and celebrates (albeit totally incomprehensibly) “womanhood.”  

This is folly, guys.  Women and men were made in the image of God, and made wonderfully distinct.  Women are a beautiful creation of God.  When in congruence with God’s pattern, they reflect His glory and beauty and majesty in their gentleness, their motherly strength, their physical gifts, their Godly obedience to their husbands, their discipling of their sons and daughters, their teaching of younger women, their resilient faith in their Father, their deep and fierce love, their faithfulness, and their rich emotional palate.  

Our culture tries to rob women of their God-given identity by telling them to just be like men, because being what God made a woman to be isn’t good enough.  

If you can’t answer how men and women are differently glorious, if you can’t answer the question of why God didn’t just create two men or two women in the Garden of Eden, then you’ll inevitably tell one to just be more like the other.  

This isn’t pro-woman.  It’s anti-woman.  It’s saying, “‘Woman ‘ isn’t good enough for us.  Instead, let’s just have ‘physically smaller man with long hair.’

“And, um, we’ll give it boots and a rope thingy.”

Equal, Good, and Different

  
The fact that a spoon and a fork are equal in value does not mean that they are identical.  A laptop and a desktop may be equal in value but not identical.  Two different objects can be worth the same but not made for the same purposes.  

And such is the case with men and women. 

Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’ Now out of the ground the Lord God had formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the man to see what he would call them. And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name. The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him. So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. Then the man said, ‘This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.’ Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. 

From Genesis 2

Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.’ This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. 

 From Ephesians 5

We are made.  And interwoven with all our individualities and dreams and beautiful complexities are our genders.  God made humans male and female, and in doing so, and in authoring marriage and childbearing, He did something wonderful, something that reflects His glory.  

He made man, and he was of great value to Him.  He made woman, and she was of equal value to Him.  Both precious.  But they were not identical.  Their purposes and places were not the same.  And if they tried to make them so, they would damage each other and mar the purposes of their Creator.  

Men and women are both made in the amazing image of God.  But men should not bear children and women should not fight wars.  Men should not have sex with men and women should not have sex with women.  Rebelling against the Creator always ends badly for the rebel. I can vouch for it myself, from every time I sin in anger or pride.  God is good, and to go against Him is to go against what is true and worthwhile and beautiful.  

Men and women are equal but not interchangeable.  

We have trouble seeing that in America in 2016, but that’s an us problem.  

Our design is beautiful; it’s our hearts that have malfunctioned.  

Father, Husband, King, Son

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God describes Himself, in the Bible and through His Son Jesus, as Father, Husband, and King.

If you believe in the Jesus of the Bible, the God who saves by the Gospel of Christ, that is what you have.

You have a God who grieves and is angry over His unfaithful wife (meaning the people who have begun to love things more than Him) in Ezekiel.

A God who is exalted as King of kings in song and prayer throughout the Old Testament.

A God who Jesus (God Himself as Son) almost constantly refers to as “Abba” (similar to “Daddy”) or “the Father.”

No, God isn’t biological; He is Spirit. But He gets to describe Himself. We don’t have the authority to tell God who He is. And he repeatedly uses these male phrases and images.

And He uses them, by the way, having no problem offending people’s ancient sensibilities. In those Ezekiel passages, He tells the Jews that they are essentially prostitutes. In graphic terms. Jesus Himself called people evil and said they were serpents. God in both Testaments tells His people not to, in many ways, be like their times and the cultures of those around them.

So God doesn’t use male imagery to describe Himself because He was worried about overly offending or shocking the ancient mindset.

No, He is clear in the Bible that He speaks truth and cannot lie.

So God is Father, Son, and Spirit. God is the Son who gave Himself to be crucified for those who would believe in Him. And that Son took on the flesh of a male, Jesus of Nazareth.

Fully capable of revealing Himself as He pleases, when He pleases, this is what God said and did. In order to help us know and love and be blessed by Him, this is what He tells us.

This is how God is. This is who God is.

And so my gentle but firm point is this: It is unchristian, unbiblical, ungodly to be ashamed of these parts of God’s character.

Every generation runs from some part of God. Forgets some part of God. Twists some part of His Word or His Son or His Gospel.

One generation may forget His tender mercy.

One His passionate, furious, jealous love for His people.

Another may deny His wrath or judgment.

Another His perfection and holiness.

Some deny His sovereignty.

But one thing 21st century America will, I think, turn hard against is the fact that God is uniquely Father, Son, and Spirit. That God is He.

Both men and women are made in His image, both are co-heirs (when they trust in Christ). Men and women are both valued by and used by God.

But He is not Mother, Daughter, and Spirit.

God is who He says He is, and each generation and each individual has a responsibility to Him to worship the true God as He is. But we all, myself included, have a tendency to whitewash what we don’t like in reality. Psychologists call it “denial.” The Bible refers to it in many ways, but the most obvious is “lying.”

It is simply lying about God to say that He is not the Father. That He is some sort of mother or He is somehow both (or neither).

God has characteristics of all the goodness He put in mothers and fathers, sons and daughters, husbands an wives. After all, He made them in His image.

But He is the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. He is the God who is Father, Son, and Spirit. The Bridegroom who will come for His bride.

And He is a beautiful, passionate, holy, loving, perfectly righteous God.

God is wonderful..